The “X-Ray Thinking” Framework — How to See Through Praise, Rejection, and Fear
Ever felt crushed after a tough meeting?
Felt unstoppable after a viral LinkedIn post?
Heartbroken when a friend suddenly ghosted you?
Here’s the hard truth:
Most things that shake us aren’t truly real or truly important.
We often overvalue praise, titles, criticism, rejection, and relationships.
We get trapped by surface emotions.
We lose perspective, peace, and personal power.
When emotions hijack us, we lose clarity.
But clarity is just a shift in perspective away.
Marcus Aurelius shared a timeless practice:
Turn everything inside out.
Strip away the labels, feelings, and hype.
Look at things as they truly are, not as they feel.
I call it: X-Ray Thinking.
Whenever emotions spike, whether positive or negative:
1. Pause.
2. Breathe.
3. Ask yourself: “What is this really, underneath the surface?”


Building X-Ray Thinking is a practice, not a one-time shift.
The more you pause, question, and X-ray the surface, the stronger your inner clarity becomes.
Next time life lifts you too high or pulls you too low:
1. Pause.
2. Breathe.
3. X-Ray it.
Truth lives under the surface.
Strength comes from seeing it.
Master this and life will never control you again.
You’ll X-Ray it and stay free.